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	<title>Comments on: Selfaholism</title>
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		<title>By: Robert</title>
		<link>http://www.synapticdomination.com/2008/06/selfaholism/#comment-145</link>
		<dc:creator>Robert</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 03 Jun 2008 13:24:50 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Those are just a couple of the things that are readily recognized in our life of how selfishness consumes us.  It &quot;makes&quot; us forget about the needs of other people because OUR priority is always top priority.  Everyone else gets the secondhand treatment.  This approach leads to an &quot;if I have time&quot; way of living.  I&#039;ve been in the situations as you mentioned about needing to be first on the highway but now I just want to arrive safely.  I can be last and still be ok.

Common courtesy to others is a very rare thing these days.  When I go to stores, the majority of the time, I will let people in or hold the door open for those behind me, or other simple things.  The funny thing is the way people react.  Most people seem amazed by it and actually say thank you.  Speaking is an achievement these days of the head nods and the down turned stares and the quick glances of acknowledgment.  People just seem to want to move along, satisfying their own desire, and not interact with others.

Thank you for the compliment!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Those are just a couple of the things that are readily recognized in our life of how selfishness consumes us.  It &#8220;makes&#8221; us forget about the needs of other people because OUR priority is always top priority.  Everyone else gets the secondhand treatment.  This approach leads to an &#8220;if I have time&#8221; way of living.  I&#8217;ve been in the situations as you mentioned about needing to be first on the highway but now I just want to arrive safely.  I can be last and still be ok.</p>
<p>Common courtesy to others is a very rare thing these days.  When I go to stores, the majority of the time, I will let people in or hold the door open for those behind me, or other simple things.  The funny thing is the way people react.  Most people seem amazed by it and actually say thank you.  Speaking is an achievement these days of the head nods and the down turned stares and the quick glances of acknowledgment.  People just seem to want to move along, satisfying their own desire, and not interact with others.</p>
<p>Thank you for the compliment!</p>
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		<title>By: Bob</title>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 03 Jun 2008 04:22:07 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>You are correct,to many people try to keep up with the Jone&#039;s and the Jone&#039;s keep getting farther in debt trying to stay ahead of the rest.  I used to drive like the road was made just for me and no body should be in front of me. I was always in a hurry to get where I was going.  It has taken a long time to learn to slow down and drive more sensible. Although I still get the urge from time to time to see what my cars will do. I am building a car now that is supposed to be pretty hot, but I will try it out at the local strip,just for fun.Don&#039;t have to be first anymore. Lots of people don&#039;t live through their stupidity to figure out that second place is sometimes the winner. 

My wife and I went out to eat the other night with a couple that had celebrated their 50th wedding anniversary not long ago. On the way home later I told Ann that Skip would sometimes run to open the door for his wife. It is very sad that you don&#039;t see this very much anymore.  Some of you readers will probably remember when you done this. Was it while you were going together to make a good impression ? Will you still be opening the doors for your wife after 50 years of marriage? It was a good idea then and I bet it still would be appreciated.  Keep up the good work!!!!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>You are correct,to many people try to keep up with the Jone&#8217;s and the Jone&#8217;s keep getting farther in debt trying to stay ahead of the rest.  I used to drive like the road was made just for me and no body should be in front of me. I was always in a hurry to get where I was going.  It has taken a long time to learn to slow down and drive more sensible. Although I still get the urge from time to time to see what my cars will do. I am building a car now that is supposed to be pretty hot, but I will try it out at the local strip,just for fun.Don&#8217;t have to be first anymore. Lots of people don&#8217;t live through their stupidity to figure out that second place is sometimes the winner. </p>
<p>My wife and I went out to eat the other night with a couple that had celebrated their 50th wedding anniversary not long ago. On the way home later I told Ann that Skip would sometimes run to open the door for his wife. It is very sad that you don&#8217;t see this very much anymore.  Some of you readers will probably remember when you done this. Was it while you were going together to make a good impression ? Will you still be opening the doors for your wife after 50 years of marriage? It was a good idea then and I bet it still would be appreciated.  Keep up the good work!!!!</p>
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