Comments on: Unconscious Deposit http://www.synapticdomination.com/2009/01/unconscious-deposit/ Ideas, Opinions, Discussions Sat, 06 Jun 2009 19:10:24 -0500 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.8.5 hourly 1 By: Robert http://www.synapticdomination.com/2009/01/unconscious-deposit/#comment-775 Robert Tue, 27 Jan 2009 00:03:38 +0000 http://www.synapticdomination.com/?p=324#comment-775 We definitely know we are blessed! And we are eternally grateful for the opportunity we have been given to be together! We definitely know we are blessed! And we are eternally grateful for the opportunity we have been given to be together!

]]> By: Ann http://www.synapticdomination.com/2009/01/unconscious-deposit/#comment-771 Ann Mon, 26 Jan 2009 07:06:11 +0000 http://www.synapticdomination.com/?p=324#comment-771 What an awesome relationship!!! I feel sorry for anyone who will maybe never experience a love like this. Consider you and your spouse blessed!!! What an awesome relationship!!! I feel sorry for anyone who will maybe never experience a love like this. Consider you and your spouse blessed!!!

]]> By: Robert http://www.synapticdomination.com/2009/01/unconscious-deposit/#comment-768 Robert Mon, 26 Jan 2009 04:34:31 +0000 http://www.synapticdomination.com/?p=324#comment-768 I think that most of the problem resides in the lack of communication in relationships. Rather than enjoy a true understanding of each other and knowing what makes each person truly happy on the inside, people resort to "buying" their way into short term happiness by making deposit and withdrawals in their relationship. It's much easier to pay for a form of happiness than it is to earn a lasting bond. Yes, happiness is earned, it's not free. I feel sorry for everyone in the world that does not have that kind of connection that we have and enjoy. I wish they had the kind of inner happiness that you and I have. I think that most of the problem resides in the lack of communication in relationships. Rather than enjoy a true understanding of each other and knowing what makes each person truly happy on the inside, people resort to “buying” their way into short term happiness by making deposit and withdrawals in their relationship.

It’s much easier to pay for a form of happiness than it is to earn a lasting bond. Yes, happiness is earned, it’s not free.

I feel sorry for everyone in the world that does not have that kind of connection that we have and enjoy. I wish they had the kind of inner happiness that you and I have.

]]> By: Jeanie http://www.synapticdomination.com/2009/01/unconscious-deposit/#comment-767 Jeanie Mon, 26 Jan 2009 04:25:19 +0000 http://www.synapticdomination.com/?p=324#comment-767 I couldn't agree more. I've been privy to many conversations of ladies talking about how they were going to do stuff for their husbands in order to get to do what they wanted without too much grief.. like a night out with the girls, or something they are wanting to buy, etc. What else can this be called but manipulation? What's so sad about it is how readily it's accepted, no expected, to be happy in a relationship. I think if you were to tell these people that you don't participate in such behavior, they wouldn't believe you and would also try their best to convince you that your significant other was doing the same. After all, when you know in your heart that this really is a form of deceit, you sure don't want to be the only one doing it and feeling bad, do you? I couldn’t agree more. I’ve been privy to many conversations of ladies talking about how they were going to do stuff for their husbands in order to get to do what they wanted without too much grief.. like a night out with the girls, or something they are wanting to buy, etc. What else can this be called but manipulation?

What’s so sad about it is how readily it’s accepted, no expected, to be happy in a relationship. I think if you were to tell these people that you don’t participate in such behavior, they wouldn’t believe you and would also try their best to convince you that your significant other was doing the same.

After all, when you know in your heart that this really is a form of deceit, you sure don’t want to be the only one doing it and feeling bad, do you?

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